Gender matters with a second dog
Of course, there are exceptions to this rule, but generally, gender will play an essential role in whether your new dog will get along with your existing dog.
Experts agree that the second dog should be of the opposite sex for the best possible chance of success.
Should you adopt a dog of the opposite sex?
Give your dog the best life possible by providing opportunities for ongoing socialization with other dogs.
Let’s say you have a male dog at home, and you’ve fallen in love with a male dog at the local animal shelter. It may be best to find a female instead.
Even if your current dog is sweet as pie, there’s bound to be a conflict between the two males. Things may be OK initially, but they may be at each other’s throats in the future when they decide that it’s time to change the pack order.
The two males, especially intact male dogs, may fight over toys and the affection of their humans.
You may wonder how to get two female dogs to get along. Like male dogs, two female dogs also may struggle with dominance issues, leading to dog aggression.
When two dogs of the same gender live in the same household, they will be forced to determine which one should be the “alpha” and which one should be the “beta,” or bottom dog.
The “decision-making” process can be violent and nasty. Ultimately, the conflict could change both dogs’ personalities. One may become excessively dominant, while the other may become overly submissive.
With a male and a female, the male can continue being the alpha, and the female can be the top female in the pack. If both dogs have been neutered, there’s an even higher chance the two dogs will get along well.
A male and female dog can live in harmony because they don’t have to compete over a position at the top of the totem pole.
You may like to believe that you and your pets are one big family, but not all pets will agree. Sometimes dogs just dont get along! Two female dogs can sometimes coexist, but life is often difficult in a two-dog household unless the two dogs are of opposite sexes.
One disadvantage to the male-female pair is the surprise litter of puppies that may arrive if neither dog has been sterilized. Although some breeds do not get along well in multiple-dog groups of any kind, male-female groups typically get along better than same-sex female groups. Spaying and neutering is vital in male-female groups. Not only does spaying and neutering prevent accidental pregnancy, but neutering also reduces testosterone levels in males. Testosterone itself is not the cause of fighting; rather, testosterone does cause “intact” males to fly off the handle more easily and prevents them from cooling off quickly.
Same-sex aggression occurs in many breeds, especially terriers. Both males and females can be aggressive toward one another; however, neutering will typically have more of an effect on reducing same-sex aggression in males than spaying will have on aggressive females. Females that come into heat will not usually affect the status quo, unless she experiences changes in her temperament during that time. Adding a third dog to a pair of female dogs will create a change in the social structure, sometimes causing aggression where none existed before. All hope is not lost, even when females start to challenge each other for dominance. With proper obedience training and reinforcement, some females do get along with one another. Avoid female pairs unless you are an experienced pet owner. If you already have a pair of female dogs and find it difficult to control them, animal behaviorists can help find a solution to your problem.
Pet owners like to treat all of their pets equally, showing equal amounts of love and attention, giving equal numbers of treats, and greeting their pets at the same time as each other. However, this equal treatment can disrupt the functioning of the pack if one dog is dominant over the other. It is absolutely natural to want to punish one dog for growling at or jumping on another. However, these bloodless battles are vital to keeping the peace, with the dominant dog reminding the social climber how rude he is being. When pet owners protect the dog getting growled at or jumped upon, they lower the social status of the dominant dog and elevate the submissive one. This interference in the natural order of social status adjustment can cause serious problems later.
You may consider your dog to be a family member, but he is also a predator. As a predator, he considers other dogs to be competition for “his” resources. Dogs particularly compete for food, reproductive rights and human attention. Aggression problems that arise between two dogs after the younger of the two matures to adulthood usually occur because the younger dog wants to elevate himself in social status over the older dog. However, humans are also often to blame for discord between housemates.
Surprising Differences: Male VS Female Dogs
You may like to believe that you and your pets are one big family, but not all pets will agree. Sometimes dogs just dont get along! Two female dogs can sometimes coexist, but life is often difficult in a two-dog household unless the two dogs are of opposite sexes.
You may consider your dog to be a family member, but he is also a predator. As a predator, he considers other dogs to be competition for “his” resources. Dogs particularly compete for food, reproductive rights and human attention. Aggression problems that arise between two dogs after the younger of the two matures to adulthood usually occur because the younger dog wants to elevate himself in social status over the older dog. However, humans are also often to blame for discord between housemates.
Pet owners like to treat all of their pets equally, showing equal amounts of love and attention, giving equal numbers of treats, and greeting their pets at the same time as each other. However, this equal treatment can disrupt the functioning of the pack if one dog is dominant over the other. It is absolutely natural to want to punish one dog for growling at or jumping on another. However, these bloodless battles are vital to keeping the peace, with the dominant dog reminding the social climber how rude he is being. When pet owners protect the dog getting growled at or jumped upon, they lower the social status of the dominant dog and elevate the submissive one. This interference in the natural order of social status adjustment can cause serious problems later.
Same-sex aggression occurs in many breeds, especially terriers. Both males and females can be aggressive toward one another; however, neutering will typically have more of an effect on reducing same-sex aggression in males than spaying will have on aggressive females. Females that come into heat will not usually affect the status quo, unless she experiences changes in her temperament during that time. Adding a third dog to a pair of female dogs will create a change in the social structure, sometimes causing aggression where none existed before. All hope is not lost, even when females start to challenge each other for dominance. With proper obedience training and reinforcement, some females do get along with one another. Avoid female pairs unless you are an experienced pet owner. If you already have a pair of female dogs and find it difficult to control them, animal behaviorists can help find a solution to your problem.
One disadvantage to the male-female pair is the surprise litter of puppies that may arrive if neither dog has been sterilized. Although some breeds do not get along well in multiple-dog groups of any kind, male-female groups typically get along better than same-sex female groups. Spaying and neutering is vital in male-female groups. Not only does spaying and neutering prevent accidental pregnancy, but neutering also reduces testosterone levels in males. Testosterone itself is not the cause of fighting; rather, testosterone does cause “intact” males to fly off the handle more easily and prevents them from cooling off quickly.