#5: Make an effort to understand them better
If your dog’s uncomfortable with you, you should also avoid doing things they dislike. So you have higher chances to restore your relationship.
But, how will you know those things?
By observing your pooch for days or weeks.
Dogs communicate with us in many other ways besides barking.
Their emotions may show on their faces. And they can also use their bodies to point out something.
For example, anxious dogs usually lick their lips all of a sudden. They’ll also yawn a lot, avoid eye contact, or have a stiff posture.
While others sniff the air or lick themselves. And many other unusual and subtle signs.
So, what I’m trying to say here is that to reconnect with your pooch, you also have to understand them more.
The same way your Fido pays close attention to you. So that they can get what you’re trying to say. Or sense your mood at the moment.
Try to read their body language. And soon you’ll also know their likes and dislikes.
This way, you’ll also ensure that you’re giving the right signals. And convey to them that you’re sorry and you love them.
Note: If you got your dog from a previous home or shelter, you may also ask some people from there. So that you’ll have a better understanding of your Fido’s traits.
#7: Talk to them every once in a while
You can also give attention and show love to your pooch without doing any physical contact.
By talking to them as you move around the house. Or while doing some chores.
For example, when you walk past them, greet them “hello” or “hi.” And also, praise them whenever they’re calm or lying down.
But, make sure that you do this in your best ‘dog-voice’ or in a manner similar to ‘baby talk.’
Also, speaking to your Fido will make them feel more connected to you.
Dogs are curious and social fluff balls.
They always want to know what their parents are up to. And they’d love to be part of those things – no matter what they are!
So by talking to your dog from time to time, they’ll have a sense of belonging.
And soon enough, they may start opening up to you again.
If you want to know more tips on how to say sorry to your dog…
Check out this article: 17 Best Ways To Apologize To Your Dog (How-To Guide)
HOW DO I REPAIR MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY DOG.
The answer would be, you have to bond with your dog and create commitments between you two. You do this using the same tactics an average dog would use to bond with another dog.
To expatiate more on this here are some guidelines to follow.
How to repair relationship with dog
Harsh methods of discipline, such as yelling at or hitting your pooch, arent constructive, only serving to scare your pup, breaking your trust with him. If the relationship with your dog has become negatively affected by either your actions or aggressive behavior on your dogs part, work with him to rebuild the trust between you. Keep interactions positive and gentle, using rewards and obedience training to encourage your pup to bond with you — and behave.
Sit quietly in a room with your pooch. Dont force any interactions with Fido, instead letting him come to you. Anytime he comes over and sits calmly near you, give him some delicious treats to reward him. Ignore any unwanted behaviors such as fearfulness, aggression or shyness. Repeat this daily for at least 15 minutes at a time. Eventually, you can just reward him when he moves closer to you, eventually happily sitting next to, or in, your lap.
Engage your pooch in a game that he enjoys, such as fetch, with his favorite toys. If, during the game, he attempts to nip or growl at you, immediately stop playing and leave the room to give Fido a “time out” of two to three minutes. Not only does this teach your pup that aggressive behavior is undesirable, it also allows you to calm down so you dont snap at your pup, negatively affecting your relationship.
Teach your dog basic obedience commands using positive reinforcement techniques. Do this in sessions of 15 minutes at a time, rewarding your pup with treats and praise when he performs a desired behavior. You can also enroll him in an obedience class with an instructor who uses positive training techniques. Learning obedience makes your dog polite and well-behaved, so youll feel more comfortable around him. When a dog learns obedience commands, it also boosts his confidence level around you and helps you to gain his trust, recommends 2ndchance.info.
Feed all of your dogs meals to him by hand. Crouch down to his level and hold out the food in the palm of your hand, avoiding eye contact with him, suggests the Best Friends Animal Society. If hes very fearful, place the food down in front of him at first, slowly working him up to eating directly from your hand. This type of feeding helps build your pups trust back up with you, while also strengthening your bond with him.
Based in Las Vegas, Susan Paretts has been writing since 1998. She writes about many subjects including pets, finances, crafts, food, home improvement, shopping and going green. Her articles, short stories and reviews have appeared on City National Banks website and on The Noseprint. Paretts holds a Master of Professional Writing from the University of Southern California.